Dinner times and car rides can a lot more enjoyable with spirited conversation. After school questions and round the dinner table helps to encourage positive conversation and open up communication with your younger children and teens.
But exactly how do you make this happen on a regular basis?
Here are some positive questions to consider asking:
For Younger Children:
- “What was the coolest thing you learned at school today?”
- “Who did you play with during recess?”
- “What made you laugh a lot today?”
- “Did you help anyone at school?”
- “What’s something nice you did for your friends or teachers?”
- “Was there a story or book that you enjoyed today?”
- “What was your favorite part of lunch?”
- “Did you try anything new or different?”
- “What’s one thing you’re looking forward to tomorrow?”
- “Tell me something that made you proud of yourself today.”
For Teenagers:
- “What class did you find the most interesting today?”
- “What’s something you’re excited about for the week?”
- “Did you have a chance to catch up with any friends?”
- “Is there a topic you discussed in class that you’d like to talk about?”
- “What’s something you feel proud of accomplishing today?”
- “Did you have any meaningful conversations with teachers or classmates?”
- “What’s a goal you’re working towards this semester?”
- “Did you learn something new that surprised you?”
- “Tell me about a positive interaction you had today.”
- “How are you feeling about your schoolwork and assignments?”
Remember to create a comfortable and non-judgmental environment when asking these questions. Let your children and teenagers share at their own pace, and actively listen to their responses. Building a strong and positive parent-child relationship involves genuine interest and understanding in their daily experiences.
Engaging your children and teenagers with positive questions after their day at school or with friends can foster open communication and help you connect on a deeper level and this can have wonderful follow on bonuses that last for decades.